Over the past decade, few topics have stirred as much parental frustration and political rhetoric as  childcare costs. The mainstream narrative has been clear: childcare is unaffordable, underfunded,  and in urgent need of government reform. 

But what if that narrative doesn’t quite match reality? 

Contrary to popular belief, the actual cost burden on parents for childcare has not skyrocketed. In  fact, when adjusted for inflation and compared to price rises in other essential areas — food, energy,  transport, and housing — childcare fees have been relatively stable. In some cases, parents today  are contributing less towards their childcare than they were 10 or even 20 years ago. 

The Numbers Tell a Different Story 

Let’s put this into context. Over the last decade: 

  • Olive oil; up 200%, butter; up 120%, potatoes; 70%, flour; 70%, chicken 72%, Eggs 80% • Electricity 110% 
  • Gas 150% 
  • Housing rents have increased by 90% 
  • Electric vehicle charging 200% 
  • Water 120% 
  • First class stamp 170% 

Meanwhile, the average increase in out-of-pocket childcare fees for parents has been far more  modest — in some cases less than 10% in real terms when government subsidies are factored in.  In fact, the expansion of “free” childcare hours and tax-free childcare schemes has reduced the  actual costs many families are paying.  

A Manufactured Crisis? 

So why does the perception persist that childcare is spiralling out of control? 

The answer may lie in the power of media framing. Over the past several years, there has been a  sustained campaign across headlines and political platforms framing childcare as a ‘crisis’ in need of  urgent government intervention. Headlines blare about “soaring costs forcing parents to quit jobs”  or “childcare collapse driving mothers back home,” even as actual fees fall. Articles warn of debt  from childcare, shortages, and how the UK lags Europe—conveniently amplifying calls for full  state funding as “social infrastructure.” This isn’t neutral reporting; it’s agenda-driven, fueling  resentment to pressure governments into expansions that sound great but ignore fiscal reality. Even  when costs drop, stories pivot to “worries” for nurseries or how poorer families might miss out,  keeping the dissatisfaction simmering. Some of this concern is rooted in genuine need — 

particularly for lower-income families or in underserved areas, but the broader picture has been  distorted. 

The result? Parents demand more, believing the system is broken, when data shows it’s more  supported than ever. Much of the outrage has been manufactured to fuel political momentum and  garner public support. At each election, childcare becomes a vote-winning strategy.  

A more cynical view is that the Conservative government knew full well that they would lose the  upcoming election; they knew that 30 hours ‘free childcare for all children of working parents’ was  unaffordable. They also knew that they wouldn’t have to deliver it. Bridget Philipson described it  as a ‘Pledge without a Plan’. She was right. The plan to put nurseries in schools is the result. It’s  an emergency plan to deal with an immediate problem. But each one is costing the taxpayer  hundreds of thousands of pounds.  

Parents, already stressed by rising living costs, are easy targets for narratives of unfairness. The  result? A growing public demand to classify childcare as a core piece of social infrastructure, akin  to schools or hospitals — something the government must fully fund. But we’ve been here before.  Millions was spent on SureStart nurseries, and over 1000 have now closed due to insolvency. The  waste is simply eyewatering.  

A Dangerous Path for Public Finances 

The idea of integrating childcare fully into the state system may sound appealing, but the financial  implications are staggering. The current proposal to open thousands of new nurseries within  primary schools, while also subsidising places across the private sector, is not just ambitious — it’s  potentially catastrophic. Each nursery costs hundreds of thousands of pounds, yet existing nurseries  are closing due to underfunding.  

The UK is already facing one of the most precarious fiscal positions in decades. National debt has  ballooned and now hovers at unsustainable levels—deficit at 5.7% of GDP, higher than most  advanced economies. And there are whispers in financial circles that Britain may soon be forced to  seek support from the International Monetary Fund (IMF) — a humiliating prospect not seen  since the 1970s. With only 48% of households being net contributors to HMRC, there simply isn’t  the financial bandwidth for adding any more social infrastructure.  

In this context, adding billions more in annual childcare subsidies and infrastructure costs could  push the UK’s finances over the edge. The well-intentioned desire to offer more free childcare  might result in less choice, lower quality provision, and long-term economic instability. 

Conclusion: Time for a Balanced Debate 

There’s no doubt that access to affordable childcare is vital for working families and for economic  productivity. But we must be honest about the numbers, the trade-offs, and the sustainability of  proposed solutions. We must also remember that at the centre of this is our children and the future  of the country. Do we really want to underfund this so catastrophically? 

Before we rush headlong into creating an entirely state-funded childcare system, we need to pause  and ask: is this really a crisis — or a cleverly constructed campaign?

Because once the government commits to a model it can’t afford, the real losers won’t just be  taxpayers — they’ll be the very families this policy was supposed to help. 

Childcare isn’t the villain it’s portrayed to be. Fees have risen modestly compared to other costs,  parents pay less thanks to subsidies, and media hype is deliberately inflaming demands for state  overreach. But beware: chasing “free” expansions could sink the government’s finances entirely.  Let’s celebrate the progress instead of demanding the impossible—before we all pay the price. And  

let’s have an honest conversation about how much value we place on the lives of very young  children.